Need advice about break up?

My x and I were on for 2 years.. all of a sudden she change.. the changes are: 1. she's not telling me the truth.. I ask her were she was and told me she has a family thing.. but i found out that she was out with her friends.. 2. always grumpy.. 3. she is always tired whenever i ask her out.. after noticing all of these, i told her that i want us to break up.. but she begged me to give her time.. i thought we are ok but after 3 months, she just disappered.. meaning, she won't return my call or text.. after a few weeks, she told me to set her free.. i tried to ask her why she wanted this to happen but no answer.. thats all i know and i am finding it hard to move on bec. i don't know the reason for our break up.. should i approach her and ask her what happened? or should i just wait for me to get numb?
Need advice about break up?
Your breakup still bothers you because you never got closure. You may never, so you'll have to deal with that the best you can. Try not to bring it into your current relationship. Now, on to your ex...

In a word, coward. I think she wanted to break up with you but was too cowardly to step up and be a real woman! She only begged for time, so she could see if things were going to work out with her new man! She was done with you. Women like that really anger me. I'm sure I'm scoring ZERO points with you by being so blunt, but there you have it. I'm a woman. We know other women. Take my word for it.

You are a better person than she and remember that. You will be better off for having found out what kind of character she possessed before you did something like ask her to marry you for God's sake. Can't you not honestly say that you're glad she's gone if she was that selfish anyway?? Count yourself lucky and consider this one of life's very hard lessons.

You won't always get closure. You might have to find your own brand of closure sometimes. Concentrate on the relationship you're in now.

And one other small piece of advice I've been known to give in the past...

Your best revenge is to live well! Be happy!

I hope this helps...good luck to you!
Need advice about break up?
It's been said.. Girls go out with guys thinking they will change but they don't.. And guys go out with girls hoping they stay the same but they end up changing.. It is just the way of life.. Time to move on to a new girl...
approach her and ask her what happened
Let her have the freedom she desires;

If she comes back, she was always urs;

If she does not, she never was
dont let it get numb, it will never go away. you have to confront her, its the only way u'll be able to forgive her for what she did to you and u can move on. u deserve better. good luck
U have spoken...the answers are there already. After 6months, both of you have your own love. Meaning you two aren't meant for each other. She has other plans..and certainly the plan is not you.
Since you have a new gf and she has a new bf the best thing is to just move on and do your best to put her out of your mind. She is your ex for a reason and the girl you are with is with you for a reason as well. Try not to focus on why things didn't work out with you and your ex and focus on making things work with the girl you are with now. Good luck!
past stays in past. never carry it to your present life, otherwise, you lose the right one who is next to you. your ex treated you wrong, never mean others will. so, be fair.



she may just cheated on you, and was not ready to break up when you bought the subject up. when she decided to break up, she did not have gut to tell you. sometimes, men do the same me.



if i were you, i careless what your ex does, and pay more attention to your new girlfriend. she is your ex, and you don't need to deal with her for rest of your life. look forward.



p.s. : goes around, comes around. she wastes your time, and someone hurts her too later. so, just give it time and see.
it's her not you. you did your part asking her why but she didnt respond instead she did everything to move away from you. Perhaps she might be confused that time about choosing between you and her other man and whn you met at the mall, her glance may mean she's plain guilty of what she did to you and silently wish she could say sorry but too late.

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