There's this girl see....can you help?

I got toghether with a girl from my class and all went well for 2 months or 3 ...try to broke up with her...succeded ...than started sendind all kind of phone messages that she loves me can't live without me, giving all kind of notes with hearts and so on so I gave in because she promises she would change.The change didn't come and I still feel the same for here and tried to explain but nothing...what should I do?Continue and see if love comes along the way ...or what...any good alternatives?
There's this girl see....can you help?
This is really something that you should decide, as we dont live in your shoes and cant really say a truthful answer.



If the change didnt come, then its most likely that the result you were hoping for when you two came back together wont occur.



She most probably sent those notes to impulsively cope with losing you, and even if she did mean what she said in the notes, it really isnt showing by the way she's acting.



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There's this girl see....can you help?
go for it
i actually dont see
tell her to move on
If you don't want her, let her go. Stringing her along is not going to be of benefit to either of you.
i dont know
Get another girlfriend...then she has to leave you alone. You can only stay with a person for so long. Change is good. And maybe...find her another boyfriend.
dont pretend to love someone if u dont... she sounds desprate... take some time apart
let her go you don't love her so don't act like you do be firm when you break up with her so she understands http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
um, you need to tell her that if she's not gonna change to stop wasting your time. you should totally break up with her, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
End it with her- she is not going to be able to help her self regardless as ti if you are going out or not.

Best thing to make her realise you dont feel the same way is to find someone else soon after.
go get her bac
She sounds a bit needy. She has a lot of growing up to do. tell her you hope she loves herself as much as she is saying she loves you, and just move on. Maybe your paths with cross again someday. Who knows.
just wait it out.

girls are like that.

they take their time to do something.

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Well right now im wondering wat she is not changing but if yu love her with all ur heart and yu know she loves yu bak then yea yu should stay with her becuz she begged yu 4 another chance but if she doesnt change tell her listen im not liking the way things r going etc. and just let her know nd if she brushes it off then maybe yu shud move on
tell her you dont feel the same way you used to and you thought that maybe something special would have happened seeing her the second time round but that 'spark' wasnt there.
If ure not happy with the relationship leave. I was stuck in a 3 year relationship waiting for love off my partner and it never happend. Id say get outta there b4 u get stuck. Dnt give in to what she says, ure obviously staying in the relationship so u dnt hurt her feelings



all the best to u

and good luck xxxxxxx
THE BEST THiiNG TO DO iiS LET HER GO. iiF YOU TWO BROKE UP THE FiiRST TiiME BECAUSE OF THE WAY SHE WAS ACTiiN, THOUGHT SHE CHANGED BUT STiiLL ACTiiNG THE SAME YOU SHOULD JUST LETT HER GO!!
You could either:



Keep going, love may come but do you really want to be stuck in a loveless relationship? She may find out and it would cause even more pain.



Tell her how you feel, maybe she'll understand but she may cry and it will take time to get over you. This could be better for everyone even though there will be pain in the short term and she porobably doesn't know what she feels anyway.
dude she is crazy. What are you still doing with her? who cares if she loves you! you don't love her that's what is important.
Break up with her. If you both aren't happy than nothing good is really going to come from this relationship.
It's hard to tell her to move on... I had to do the same with an ex. The guilt is hell dude... but eventually you and her (hopefully) make it out okay.
nothing will change, trust me . its better to talk to her and put an end to this now before she or u get hurt.
Say goodbye and mean it. No more contact. You're not doing this girl any favors by staying with her if you just don't have the right feelings for her. She may not see this now, but she will later when she finds the right person for her. Same goes for you. Whatever change you expected from her is obviously something she can't do. Find that special someone that you don't have to change a thing!
just do it
i think you should give her one more chance so that you will know for sure and pray over it...seriously lol....obviously she feels something so just try one more time sincerely...if you don't feel nething again then you need to have a sit down talk with her and let her know that you two can still be friends
She must really like you and if she says she will change then she might. You might just have to be patient, but if it has been a month or two don't break up with her just sit down and talk to her. I hope you guys make it!!



GOOD LUCK